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"Your life is not a problem to be solved but a gift to be opened." ~ Wayne Muller

How to Write Inspirational Memoir (Giveaway!)

This week I’m excited to introduce you to writer and friend, Emily T. Wierenga. Emily is an award-winning journalist, blogger, commissioned artist and columnist, as well as the author of five books, including the memoir, Atlas Girl: Finding Home in the Last Place I Thought to Look (Baker Books). This recently released memoir is testament to the healing power of writing and I know you’ll enjoy what she has to say here about writing our stories.

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You know the ones.

The stories that keep you up at night, the ones that have you dog-earing pages and weeping in the margins for all these characters have gone through and you want to sleep but you want to read, more, because here’s the thing: these people are real.

The ones you’re reading about, they’re flesh and blood, and besides a few name changes there’s not much fabricated because it’s a memoir.

But the best memoir isn’t just about real people; it’s about the art and the sanctity of storytelling.

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How Living By My Values Changed My Life

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I was at the end of my emotional rope when I walked into the office of the man who was to become my counselor.

And he asked me about my core values.

After battling depression for almost a year, considering my values wasn’t a top priority; I was more concerned with making it through the day.

I was desperate, afraid and anxious and was allowing those feelings to define who I was. The line between my authentic self and the one I now believed myself to be was disturbingly blurred.

Values? I just wanted to feel better.

But during that initial session I learned something critical: my behaviour and feelings do not frame my identity. My core values do (tweet that!)« Continue »

When Words are Like Clanging Cymbals

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“Living has yet to be generally recognized as one of the arts.” ~Karl De Schweinitz I don’t think I’m a writer any more. When I feel sad or ponderous or have that one moment of ridiculous clarity, I don’t scamper helter-skelter for the computer like I once did. I don’t leave dinner to burn on [...]

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In the Time We Have Left

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August 2003, my dad’s Parkinson’s disease was discovered. It’s been eleven years since the diagnosis, and time has both stretched out like a hot summer day and sped up like a ball down a hill, collecting speed as it charges onward. When it all first came about, I wrote pages and pages in neon-colored little [...]

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Discover the Healing Power of Writing Your Story

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For a long time I didn’t feel good about my story. My past followed me around like a pesky shadow I wanted to stomp away. An empty past with titles such as depressed and useless hanging over it. And even though I thought I had my past tightly locked away in the dusty closet of [...]

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Why I Chose to Rise and Forgive

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The year I turned seven, my father, a government employee, was relocated to another town. Myself, my mother and my siblings stayed back home. I never really knew why, but I assumed it was because we were already settled into our home and the local schools. As kids, we weren’t prepared for this major upheaval in our [...]

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